Who's coming to dinner?: The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy

I know, WOW! What does that mean??? LOL I've studied the Universal Laws for years and even as a scientist I get lost in the gobbly goop of explanations. Simply put: Energy is constantly moving, change is inevitable and we have the ability, through intent and action, to change the energy in our experience. Through choosing higher vibrations of love and compassion, for example, we have the ability to heal and transmute lower vibrations. It's all about what you invite into your space.

Recent events in my life have brought to my attention the way in which we invite, or allow, certain energies and experiences into our reality. I went on a vacation alone a few weeks ago and manifested a free hotel upgrade, free good and drinks and good company at a local hangout. The vacation itself was something I manifested--inexpensive and luxurious. I had a great time, but what stuck out the most from my experience was how I allowed certain things to enter into my reality. For example, as I was traveling to the local hangout, I decided that I would have fun no matter what, good people would talk to me, I would make friends, I simply would not allow anything but the positive into my space. If this meant I spent my time alone, then so be it. I was okay with either outcome, of course, but what happened was I sat in the right place at the right time, befriended the owner of the place and some staff and ended up eating and drinking for free the entire night. I had wonderful conversation with people I felt very connected to. I looked around the hangout, realizing there were a number of people in there who easily could have sat by me, but it was my allowance of a positive experience that attracted just that into my reality.

Drama, arguments, fights, saddness, hostility... These are all things we allow into our reality. Think of these negative feelings like the vampire at the door. Would you invite him to dinner? We always have a choice to use higher vibrations--love, peace, compassion, forgiveness, etc--to transmute these lower vibrations into higher ones. We always have a choice of what enters into our reality.

This gets trickier when another person or people are involved. You do not want to override their free will. Rather, present with your energy what you will allow into your space, not from a place of fear but from a place of love and compassion. Allow that person the ability to be angry but do not allow it to affect you in your space. Allow another person to fail, but not in a way that that harms you. Allow people the grace to go through their crap, but do not allow it to drag you down. Allowing another person the freedom to go through their "stuff" comes from the ultimate place of trust and acceptance. By setting up a boundary of what you allow, you are also loving yourself. It's a win-win situation.

Another component of this law is that higher vibrations will always transmute (change or heal) the lower vibrations. Scientifically, this makes sense. Think of it this way: If a ball is bouncing quickly--think of this as love-- and it bumps into a ball that is slow moving--think of this as fear or anger--the higher vibrating ball will cause the lower vibrating ball to accelerate. If you have a hard time visualizing, give it a try. :) By choosing to live at a higher vibration you are not only healing yourself, you are healing others. We are all connected, like beads on a string, and the shift of one person will impact all of us. Consider it your gift to humanity to choose love, kindness and compassion.

Be a source of love and light and allow your energy to heal yourself and others. Stop inviting negative emotions, people and experiences into your world. Grant others the grace to make their mistakes, live their lives and learn their lessons. Send out love and acceptance and it will come back.